The shrimp paste in this recipe adds a slightly salty flavor that is impossible to pinpoint unless you saw the cook add it to the pot. Your dinner guests will beg for your secret ingredient. Don't tell.
1 tablespoon sesame oil
1 pound asparagus, trimmed and cut into 2-inch pieces
1 teaspoon fish sauce
1 teaspoon toasted sesame seeds
cup toasted peanuts